So why does it seem so hard...........

Ok, this post is just really a short rant on having to stay strong to be natural. I mean most of the woman I am around are fully weaved or permed to the nines. I must admit the long flowing hair (btw, hair that used to belong to someone else) is really gorgeous on these women. It's flowing and silky looking. My permed sisters, hair is fly as hell and really looks good. Me..........the begining stages of locking my hair so I look a little um....... unkept by the head. I make sure I'm showered and April fresh and my clothes are clean and look neat but I still sometimes feel not so cute. Needless to say I have to tell myself "this too shall pass" and soon I'll have the flow and look I so desire. I guess this is all to say, sometimes when 'everybody' else looks like they are conforming to what is considered the norm and I'm out of the norm (which really should be the norm, aka, naturally what we were given) that's when I have to KNOW my worth, beauty and intellegence is not my hair. Just a thought. Go on and have a great day! Love and Blessings! Peace.

Be Happy!

WHO YOU ARE BECOMING - Slice of Life Today!

Words to Encourage

http:youtu.be/QMA7HQgTe4c

Life lessons

I was thinking, we all have a choice. Well, I sometimes forget cause I'm a rescuer and I sometimes put others before myself. Not always a great idea. You see, I met this man a while back and yes we just clicked. Lost touch and now he has 'appeared' in my life again. At the time we met we both were in relationships, now we both are single and free. Well wouldn't you know he still has a 'thing' for me. (smile)
Not so fast, now he's not in such a good space, can I just say broke, damn near homeless, no car and I must mention, 3 kids. Soooo, the kids don't faze me as much as the other mentions. I mean, I know what I want and deserve so I had to 'remind' myself that this man is NOT for me. Yeah, he's still a sweet heart and charming as ever but I'm really not down for a relationship that brings not much to the table other than great charm. So, I will pass and wait patiently for the Man that is supposed to really appear in my life. All this to say, life lessons sometimes appear as 'your blessing' but pay close attention to detail cause sometimes it's just a mirage. Peace and Blessings!

Update!!!!!!

As you can see from the photo..................I'm starting Ova!!!! Yeah me! I decided that I wanted a fresh start. Sometimes a fresh start means getting rid of the old and starting from scratch! Ok, why you may ask,

I've come to the conclusion that traditional locs are the way I want to go. Being tender-headed and also hard-headed at the same time has led me to this decision. You see, I was advised by those who know me well to get traditonal locs in the first place but "NO" I had to have the sisterlocks. Anywho, it was a journey I needed to experience but the end has come to that road traveled. So now, a fresh start on the beginning to my next destination. One of the things I love about being me is I can change my mind at any time and no one can change it for me. That being said, wish me well on my new journey or not, either way I'm already riding out! Peace!!!

Repost!!! LOVE YOU!

Loving me, myself and I

Wow, it really seems to be a big push on loving and choosing to be loved right. I know that to truly be loved right by someone you have to truly love yourself. I was watching Oprah and was blown away by something Marie Osmond said, "you marry at the level of your self esteem." Not only do we choose we have the choice of choosing. Don't let your choice be determined by the way you are or are not loving yourself. I have been guilty of choosing partners that I know now should not have even been a consideration! The more I focused on loving me and knowing that I was worthy of the best took my choices down to slim to none. LOL! Not saying that he is not out there but he ain't around here. :>}
Ladies and gentleman choose wisely, you have a choice! It's ok if you've messed up a time or two or three, but get the lesson and focus on you! Self love makes you a happier person and a better lover when the right person comes along. Trust God first then trust your gut, it won't steer you wrong. Wishing you all a true love. Enjoy the journey! Peace and blessings.

Time for a retightening! But.........I love the fullness!

I like the full look of my sisterlocs before I need to get a retightening. My hair is coming along nicely, I have minor slippage in the top and a little in the back but other than that it's all good. :")

TRUST......not easy but we must.

In those dark moments, ask your Self: 

"If we attract everything into our lives, what is the negative situation/person/etc reflecting from your Self?"

"What can I learn from this negative experience?" 

"What new direction am I being pushed to make for my journey right now?" 

"Maybe this was the right thing to happen for me to realise (Real-I-RISE) something that I need to learn/remember/explore?"

Change is a sign that you are Self-evolving!
It's not always easy though...

TRUST

☽❍☾

(borrowed from Holistic locs)

Positive

Fresh retightening

Loving me, myself and I

Wow, it really seems to be a big push on loving and choosing to be loved right. I know that to truly be loved right by someone you have to truly love yourself. I was watching Oprah and was blown away by something Marie Osmond said, "you marry at the level of your self esteem." Not only do we choose we have the choice of choosing. Don't let your choice be determined by the way you are or are not loving yourself. I have been guilty of choosing partners that I know now should not have even been a consideration! The more I focused on loving me and knowing that I was worthy of the best took my choices down to slim to none. LOL! Not saying that he is not out there but he ain't around here. :>}
Ladies and gentleman choose wisely, you have a choice! It's ok if you've messed up a time or two or three, but get the lesson and focus on you! Self love makes you a happier person and a better lover when the right person comes along. Trust God first then trust your gut, it won't steer you wrong. Wishing you all a true love. Enjoy the journey! Peace and blessings.

Birthday

Today is my birthday, the day I officially entered the world, February 22. The year was 1964. I'm officially 47 years young today. Whoooohooo!!!!!! God has been so good and merciful to me. I have to say that the majority of my life has been pleasent. Yes, I've had some painful times, loosing my Mom and other family members that I miss so dearly, but also I feel truly blessed to have survived the times that were really hard or seemingly unbearable at the time. I have a great family and some really great friends. Life is good and I make sure I praise God each and every moment that I realize how blessed I am. That turns out to be quite often! :>) That keeps me focused and humble. I aspire to live to a very blessed old age so I try my best to remain on the middle road of life so as not to fall into any ditches that may be too far to the right or left. Balance may be the word I'm looking for. Believe me I've been totally off balance and I must say thats not a fun place to be. I'm continuing to grow and learn and I pray that I never stop. Wishing you all a blessed and wonderful day!

Updated Pics

  Hello everyone! Hope all are well and at peace. I am really enjoying my sisterlocks and love the little style I created just to try something new. Love the ease and no fuss of wearing my locks. I get so many compliments and curious looks. Don't mind either. :>)

Completed Hat and Scarf

On a wintery day while stuck in the house I decided to crotchet my first hat and scarf. Take a look. Modeled by my 19 year old.

Just do it!

This was so much fun. Try it.
Crocheting a Hat: Starting Row 1: How to Crochet a Hat | eHow.com

Pictures to come.

Sisterlock love!

I am lovingggggggggg my Sisterlocks! The get up and truely fluff and go and the beauty of looking good all the time. :>)
I am so happy I made this decision! This journey is one I look forward to and feel happy about. I wish all woman the confidence and freedom that comes with making the decision to go natural. We must learn to love and accept  ourselves before we can truely accept another. With God's help and direction this is something that we can accomplish. Life truely is a journey and not a destination. Embark with faith, pleasure and pride! Peace and Blessings to all.

Loving my Family

The gift of family means so much. I love my family so very much. Sometimes we have differences of opinions but it can't change the fact that the love is strong! Love your family. Family is God's gift to us all. If you want to know how to truely love, hold on to and love your family.

Peace and Blessings to all.

Choosing a Sisterlock Consultant

Sisterlock Consultant

  I just want to tell you how important it is to research and interview your consultant. I must stress the importance of this, not only is it a big investment but you want it right the first time. I have heard countless stories of ladies who have not only made the investment but then were disappointed with the service. Do your research and also have a conversation with the consultant. It makes a difference. I love my consultant, Mrs. Tressie Samuel. She is very professional and caring as a consultant. Thanks Tressie.